Is My Child Ready to Follow Jesus?
- Next Generation IMPACT
- Sep 25
- 4 min read
Every parent who loves Jesus longs for their child to know Him too. Few moments feel more important than when your son or daughter begins to ask questions about faith. But it can also feel overwhelming. Parents often wonder, Is my child ready to be saved? Do they understand enough? How do I lead my child to Christ without rushing them?
The good news is this: salvation is God’s work, not yours. Your job is not to force the moment, but to guide, listen, and point your child to Jesus when they show signs of readiness.
Signs Your Child May Be Ready to Follow Jesus
They ask spiritual questions.
Kids often show readiness through curiosity. They may ask things like, Why did Jesus have to die? or Does God still love me when I do bad things? or even, How do I get to heaven? These questions show that God is stirring their hearts to think about Him in personal ways.
They recognize sin personally.
Romans 3:23 says, “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” (ESV). Many children know in general that people do wrong things, but a sign of readiness is when they begin to see that they themselves have sinned against God. Instead of only noticing what others do wrong, they name their own choices without excuses and connect those choices to God’s standard. You may hear, I lied and that was wrong, or see them admit a wrong on their own.
They desire forgiveness.
Another sign of readiness is when a child shows more than simple regret about misbehavior. Instead of only being upset about consequences, they express a longing to be right with God again. Isaiah 59:2 says that sin separates us from God, and a child who is ready begins to feel the weight of that separation and wants it to change.
They believe Jesus is the only way.
A child who is ready begins to show that their trust is in Jesus alone, not in being good or trying harder. They understand that only He can make them right with God. Jesus said, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me” (John 14:6, ESV).
If you begin to notice these signs in your child, here are some ways you can gently guide them toward Jesus.
How to Guide Your Child Toward Jesus
Listen more than you talk.
Let your child’s questions guide the conversation. Their words often reveal how much they understand and where they need clarity.
Keep the gospel simple.
Explain: Sin separates us from God, but Jesus died on the cross and came back to life to take the punishment for our sin. When we trust Him, we are forgiven and welcomed into God’s family now and forever (Romans 5:8).
Use clear words.
Kids think in concrete ways, so use words they can picture. Instead of saying repent, you could say, “Stop doing things that go against God and obey what He says.” Instead of saying “ask Jesus into your heart”, you could say, “Believe in Jesus and trust Him to forgive your sins. Then you have the right relationship with God.” Using clear, everyday words helps kids focus on the truth without getting confused.
Pray with them.
If your child expresses faith, you can guide them in prayer. Encourage them to admit their sin, believe that Jesus died on the cross and came back to life, and choose to follow Him. Remind them that it is not special words that save, but faith in Jesus (Ephesians 2:8–9).
Encouragement for Parents
Knowing if your child is ready to follow Jesus can feel weighty, but remember this truth: God loves your child even more than you do, and He is the one who draws them to Himself. Your role is to share truth, pray faithfully, and be present when God works in their heart.
Philippians 1:6 reminds us, “He who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ” (ESV). Trust God with your child’s heart and His timing.
When a child has been asking questions and beginning to understand, there may come a moment when they put it into words. A child may say things like, I know I did wrong and I need Jesus to forgive me, or I believe Jesus died for me, or even, I want to be with God forever.
However your child expresses it, you can be sure it is not because you had the perfect words but because God’s Spirit was at work in their heart. And that is the greatest joy of all.
FAQs: Helping Your Child Follow Jesus
At what age are most kids ready for salvation?
There isn’t a “right age.” Some children show readiness very young, while others take more time. The key is not age but understanding. Look for signs that your child personally recognizes sin and trusts Jesus, not just repeats what they’ve heard.
What if my child just wants to pray because their friend did?
That can happen! In those moments, slow down. Instead of rushing into a prayer, gently ask questions to see what they understand. If they only want to copy a friend, keep guiding and pointing them to Jesus over time.
How do I avoid pushing my child too soon?
Keep the gospel simple, answer questions honestly, and let God’s Spirit do the work. Your role is to stay available, not to pressure. Faith should come from their heart, not from trying to please you.
What if my child accepts Jesus but later has doubts?
Reassure them that doubts are normal, even for adults. Remind them that salvation depends on Jesus’ finished work, not on their feelings. Use Scripture to point them back to God’s promises.
What should I do after my child is saved?
Celebrate with them! Then keep nurturing their faith through Bible reading, prayer, and connection with a church family. Encourage small steps of obedience, like sharing their story or serving others.
Extra Helps for Parents Available in our FREE Gospel Toolkit
Gospel Guide for Kids – A step-by-step tool that explains God’s plan of salvation in simple language and gives kids space to think, reflect, and respond in their own words.
Say This, Not That – A quick cheat sheet with clear wording to make the gospel simple and understandable for kids.
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